3 Years After Buying in a Wild Market… Does Saly Regret Buying Her First Home? 

 December 14, 2025

How to Buy a Home Podcast

She broke her lease. Bought fast. And now? Life looks very different.

Watch Sally’s 3-Year Check-In

Before Buying

Saly was renting a home back in 2022 when she stumbled across the How to Buy a Home podcast. Here’s where she started:

  • Renting when she started listening to the podcast
  • Thought it wasn’t the right time because she had JUST signed a new lease
  • Concerned about market conditions, interest rates, and timing
  • Connected with a Unicorn team through the podcast and began the process

Financing Her Home

  • Used her 401(k) as a loan (not withdrawal), which she emphasized is paid back to herself
  • Was cautious but saw it as a smart, low-interest way to fund her down payment

 

🎧 Want the full story?

Listen to Saly’s original first time homebuyer  journey on the How to Buy a Home Podcast.


After the Purchase (3 Years Later)

  • Still in the same home, with no regrets
  • No rent increases—one of the biggest financial wins
  • Feels secure in her payment and her ability to travel and plan
  • Mentally and emotionally at peace: she talks about being calmer, more confident, and happier
  • Grateful she acted when she did—even though she almost waited
  • Painted her home office green, made upgrades with her husband (custom bookshelf)
  • Already planning her next move: possibly renting this home and buying again

 

🎧 Curious how it all turned out?

Hear Saly reflect on her journey—3 years after buying.

Watch Sally’s Full Interview


What Changed Everything

  • Connected with a local, expert “Unicorn” team who explained the process clearly
  • Used her 401(k) as a strategic down payment solution
  • Got honest, scenario-based support from her lender
  • Broke her lease because the plan finally made sense

Saly Answered the 401(k) Question

Wondering if you should use your 401(k) to buy a home?

Saly explains how she made it work, and why it wasn’t as scary as it sounds.

A lot of people get nervous when they hear “Use your 401(k) to buy a house.” Saly was too—until she understood how it actually works.

  • It’s a loan, not a withdrawal. That means she’s borrowing from herself, not cashing out her retirement.
  • She’s paying it back to herself. With interest—but that interest goes right back into her own account.
  • It gave her peace of mind. She didn’t have to drain savings or take on a high-interest loan.
  • She’s almost done paying it off. No stress. No regrets.

Saly’s not saying you should do it. But if you’re sitting on a 401(k) and wondering if it’s even allowed? It is. And it just might be the tool that gets you into your first home.

Plus, it helped her diversify. Instead of having all her investments in one place, she shifted a portion into real estate—gaining both stability and long-term growth potential.

Talk to your lender. Talk to your financial planner. Ask the questions Saly asked—and then decide if it’s the right fit for you.

Disclaimer: This content is for educational purposes only and should not be considered financial advice. Please consult a licensed financial advisor or tax professional before making decisions about your 401(k) or home financing options.

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About the author

David Sidoni is the host of the How to Buy a Home Podcast and a nationally recognized real estate educator for first-time buyers. With over 4,100 real-life success stories, David has spent more than a decade helping renters break the cycle and become confident, prepared homeowners. His honest, myth-busting advice has made him one of the most trusted voices in the homebuying space.

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